Life Outside Your Comfort Zone

Life Outside Your Comfort Zone

Only when you step out of your comfort zone can you experience life fully, richly and deeply. It is important to do this from time to time, not only for yourself, but for those around you. If not, you will be forever trapped by your own fears. In the past I have advocated asking yourself “Why Am I Here?” or to use a door as a way to remind yourself that what is behind you is truly behind you – it can never be undone, and that...

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Goldilocks Effect – Why You Are Never Happy With What Is

Goldilocks Effect – Why You Are Never Happy With What Is

This one is too hot, this one is too cold. Why do you never see things as they are rather than as you want them to be? If you stop seeing things as not quite right you may just begin to see the world as perfect just as it truly is warts and all. Perhaps as you walk outside you instinctive think, “why is it always raining?” or “why is it always so sunny?” Perhaps you walk out of a meeting dissatisfied with how it went,...

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Always Something You Can Do

Always Something You Can Do

No matter how badly you have fallen, no matter how many scrapes and scratches you have accumulated, no matter how badly bruised you are, there is always something small you can do to improve your circumstances. There is absolutely nothing in your present situation that prevents you from moving in a direction. It may not bee the right direction, but that is okay. If you find you have moved in the wrong direction you can always course correct...

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You Are A Diamond

You Are A Diamond

Diamond do not shine on their own. They shine because they have many facets that catch and reflect the light, just like you. Each of you has many facts to who you are as well. The difference is that you rarely show them all at once. You tend to hide them, only revealing them when you think the time and place is right. You have one face for the office, another for dates, and still another for the gym. You have your sexy face, your playful face,...

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A Mindful Legacy

A Mindful Legacy

What you do every day is what creates the legacy you are living and the legacy of who you will be remembered for well into the future. It is your legacy that you leave behind as you pass on to whatever awaits. It is the same legacy that precedes you as you pass through this world. It is the way people think of you before they even meet you. Reputation, karma, legacy, they are all the same. The more people you lie to, cheat and steal from, the...

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You Always Have A Choice

You Always Have A Choice

Every day that you wake up you have a choice. You can choose to stay in bed or greet the day. You can choose to live your day in anger or in joy. You can choose to greet people in fear or with compassion. Do not blame your path based on what some one else did or did not do. Do not blame your path based on what you did or did not do. The moment you open your eyes is the moment you have a choice to make. It is based on a single, very simple...

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